I'm not going to live my life in regret I know it sounds terrible but you gotta do what you gotta do. I think people get carried away with the whole social status of a Doctor which is really unnecessary. Anybody dating him is going to need to understand that, and that it has to come first. I usually mean exactly what I say.
And don't get hung up on all the "lofty doc" stuff. I then asked some questions about some of the essays, and her answer to everything is "because god. I love my former Mormon friends and family, but a relationship requires devotion and trust and understanding. What can I or your spouse do to make my spouse feel more important besides not being a physician. Even with the demands on his time, the man took the time and made the effort to post a profile on a dating site. Sometimes you might even get jealous of the patients since they seem to get to even see your 'doctor' more than you do. Also, I know a bunch of Mormons that say they are, but don't act like it. I'm doing the best I can, I try to travel to visit family but again it would be just me and my son.
But I love him. My wife told me she does not want to know if the church is false, so I don't pressure her. I get sweet texts some morning when he is on his way to the office and that's all it takes the rest of my day is amazing.
Did U have sex with her yet. And if he loves you as much as you love him. Eventually I hope each wards get to a point where they know that as a ward family our job is simply to make sure that each person, member or non member knows that when they enter the house of the Lord, they are loved.